update on A, B & C

Well... what happened next the night of the misunderstanding was followed by a phone call from the Aunt of Friend B... This is where Friend A got HUMILIATED and DEGRADED and even THREATENED just because she sort of ignored Friend B's apology... Friend B and her Aunt JUDGED Friend A that she humiliated Friend B because of that... Friend A even recieved cursing words... The next day, she was even confronted by the mother of Friend B and being THREATENED again yet... Friend A stood calm and did not utter any word since she really feels in all honesty that she really did not do ANYTHING wrong AT ALL... Take note of this one: Friend A was confronted by Friend B's mother AFTER ATTENDING TO MASS AT THE CHURCH... the worst part of all, they already know that Friend A has a crucial family problem with regards to her sick father yet... they really went so nasty and even started with "I'm sorry about your father.... but what you did to my daughter blah-blah-blah...". Friend A was confronted IN PUBLIC where many of their common friends heard about the confrontation... Friend B was even happy about it... As to Friend C, she completely sided with Friend B and now ignoring Friend A.... Friend C is kinda' afraid of Friend B's mother and elder sister.... So there goes friendship... Friend A stood beside Friend C thru thick and thin just weeks ago when Friend C had a problem... Now, Friend C is nowhere to be found and does not even talk to Friend A anymore... While Friend B, was a kind of person who talks behind Friend A's back. It even got to the point that Friend A almost lost her patience about Friend B's backstabbing, yet she just went quiet about it and did not even confronted Friend B about it and just thought that it's only a waste of time to fight with Friend B about her being childish...

I also would like to make a clarification that I am not Friend C... I think most of you who got to read about the " which side would you choose? " thought that I am Friend C... I am really not Friend C. And, I have thought of an acronym which suites best for friend A, B & C:

A - accused

B - biatch

C - coward

I would also like to take this opportunity to thank the following persons for their wonderful point of view and really made Friend A think more and realize things more:

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(CLICK ON THEIR NAMES TO CHECK OUT THEIR WONDERFUL BLOGS AS WELL!)
lou lou, Porkchop Miyer, Norman, Suzanne, nina, Laura, Andrea, frstlymil, Maria, NRT, Meg, SEV, Sol, Chelsea, and enn enn. I forgot to thank also
Marvi, He also left a comment thru Blog Explosion.

In return for your wonderful point of views, I promise to rate your blogs with a 10! That's how thankful I am with your comments. And if anyone of you would like to exchange links, just let me know and I'll gladly add you to my blogroll.

For Laura & enn enn: I hope you could read this... I was hoping also to see your blogs as well

For everyone, thanks for reading my entries and rating me as well... Actually, I am quite sad with my rating because I already reached eight stars now I am down to six... =( oh well... as the saying goes "You can't please everybody".... *sigh*

which side would you choose?

I just don't know if you're going to agree with me... But it seems that, when there's trouble like between two of your closest friends, somehow you would be compromised to choose... to whom would you side on? And, as you choose, there's this process of weighing things out... for me, it would be whose mistake is it and whose unfair between the two... Here's a situation....

Friend A is a person who is transparent and TRUE to whatever she feels for another... Like, if she doesn't feel like talking to someone or when not in a mood, she would just be herself... Friend B is someone whom she's not close to... One time Friend B apologized to Friend A for a mistake she had done... Friend A did not talk to her not even looked at her... And here comes Friend C, a close friend of Friend B, who knows already that Friend A is a person that, when being apologized to, would not talk to you automatically and would want to let her ill feelings subside...

Then, Friend B suddenly made a BIG DEAL out of it and ASSUMED that she's being DEGRADED by what Friend A had done... She JUDGED Friend A as a mean person who ignored her. Friend B made that issue a VERY BIG to the point that she allowed Friend A to be humiliated, degraded, and pointed a finger at her face. Just because Friend A did not talk to her when she apologized...

YOU WHO'S READING THIS BLOG ENTRY... IF A FRIEND OF YOURS SAID SORRY, WOULD YOU TALK TO HER INSTANTLY? IF YOUR ANSWER IS "IT DEPENDS..." WHAT ARE YOUR GROUNDS WHEN IT COMES TO A CERTAIN SITUATION OF YOURS?
(IMPORTANT NOTE: I would really beg, to those who is reading this entry to answer this question... I really hope you'd be able to give a little of your time to answer the question to help my Friend A. Please do answer by posting on the comment thingy... THANKS SO MUCH!!!)

Friend A was even FORCED to say sorry to Friend B yet... Friend A's conscience is really clean... She really did not do ANYTHING to Friend B to make her feel degraded... Yet... Friend A is about to be challenged MUCH MORE by the supporting friends of Friend B to be sorry because they have JUDGED Friend A badly...

And so, with what had happened, their common friends are now divided into two... the worst part of it all, Friend A recently helped Friend C with her problem and even sacrificed her time to make Friend C feel her support, love and care... Yet... Friend C is somehow blinded by some things and because of that, Friend A is disappointed and hurt... The worst part of it all, Friend B's side is planning to hurt Friend A MORE...

BLOG EXPLOSION!!!

I am so happy that because of BLOG EXPLOSION, many people have seen my website and I know I have to be thankful for the BLOG EXPLOSION but... I am also VERY THANKFUL for the people who took time to leave a comment or leave a message at my tag board. I really appreciated it! Special thanks also to the few people who rated my blog. Please do let me know if you want to exchange links with me and I'll be really glad to link you so that, I would still be able to go back and visit your site. Here's my special thanks to everyone....