Monday, November 15, 2004

which side would you choose?

I just don't know if you're going to agree with me... But it seems that, when there's trouble like between two of your closest friends, somehow you would be compromised to choose... to whom would you side on? And, as you choose, there's this process of weighing things out... for me, it would be whose mistake is it and whose unfair between the two... Here's a situation....

Friend A is a person who is transparent and TRUE to whatever she feels for another... Like, if she doesn't feel like talking to someone or when not in a mood, she would just be herself... Friend B is someone whom she's not close to... One time Friend B apologized to Friend A for a mistake she had done... Friend A did not talk to her not even looked at her... And here comes Friend C, a close friend of Friend B, who knows already that Friend A is a person that, when being apologized to, would not talk to you automatically and would want to let her ill feelings subside...

Then, Friend B suddenly made a BIG DEAL out of it and ASSUMED that she's being DEGRADED by what Friend A had done... She JUDGED Friend A as a mean person who ignored her. Friend B made that issue a VERY BIG to the point that she allowed Friend A to be humiliated, degraded, and pointed a finger at her face. Just because Friend A did not talk to her when she apologized...

YOU WHO'S READING THIS BLOG ENTRY... IF A FRIEND OF YOURS SAID SORRY, WOULD YOU TALK TO HER INSTANTLY? IF YOUR ANSWER IS "IT DEPENDS..." WHAT ARE YOUR GROUNDS WHEN IT COMES TO A CERTAIN SITUATION OF YOURS?
(IMPORTANT NOTE: I would really beg, to those who is reading this entry to answer this question... I really hope you'd be able to give a little of your time to answer the question to help my Friend A. Please do answer by posting on the comment thingy... THANKS SO MUCH!!!)

Friend A was even FORCED to say sorry to Friend B yet... Friend A's conscience is really clean... She really did not do ANYTHING to Friend B to make her feel degraded... Yet... Friend A is about to be challenged MUCH MORE by the supporting friends of Friend B to be sorry because they have JUDGED Friend A badly...

And so, with what had happened, their common friends are now divided into two... the worst part of it all, Friend A recently helped Friend C with her problem and even sacrificed her time to make Friend C feel her support, love and care... Yet... Friend C is somehow blinded by some things and because of that, Friend A is disappointed and hurt... The worst part of it all, Friend B's side is planning to hurt Friend A MORE...

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