"what you give is what you get in return..."
it's been a long time i haven't updated my blog... it's all because i've been very busy since my friend's Dad passed away... For those who have read about the Friend A, B & C, that friend of mine is Friend A. She is really depressed right now and... Something unexpected had happened... In a way, I think it's meant to happen... Here's the story...
Friend A's Dad passed away a week ago and the wake of her father lasted for a week and two days... Just this Monday, unexpectedly, Friend B came to the wake... The initial reaction of Friend A, is that, she got mad... Why? Because she does not want Friend B to be there and if Friend B is planning to apologize to Friend A, it's just not the right time... Friend A was hurt so much that she would not want to accept an apology just like that... Friend B caused so much damage... So, what happened next, when Friend B was about to leave, Friend A snapped and in a higher pitch said: "I do not need you here! For a long time I did not utter any word when I am hearing negative things that you have said at my back... You should even be thankful that I NEVER have degraded nor said foul words towards you." And, to some extent, Friend A even pointed a finger at Friend B's face and then, Friend B's brother accompied her out of the house...
Next thing happened, when Friend A came home, Friend B managed to blog about her encounter with Friend A last November which contained some lies to the story... I would really like to give the link here but her entry is in Filipino.... To make the long story short, she even got mad about what Friend A have done to her... To think that she started everything and now that she got a taste of her own medicine, that's how she reacted... And so, the brother of Friend B even told Friend A that her sister is traumatized about what happened... Well, if you can only understand Filipino and will be able to read what Friend B has on her blog, you will NEVER get the hint that she's in a trauma...
Of course, Friend B's brother defended her... told that Friend A was wrong in making a scene and that, Friend A DESERVES to be humiliated and degraded by their mom and aunt... Friend A defended herself by telling Friend B's brother "Who are they to judge me like that?". In my opinion, everyone does not have ANY RIGHT to treat someone shitty just because she/he desrves it... Even God does not know how to punish people... As to Friend A's point of view, she just could not take it anymore that's why she bursted all of a sudden and unexpectedly made a scene... In a way, she's defending her side... Specially right now that she had lost her father, she's in a LOT of pain...
Friend A's Dad passed away a week ago and the wake of her father lasted for a week and two days... Just this Monday, unexpectedly, Friend B came to the wake... The initial reaction of Friend A, is that, she got mad... Why? Because she does not want Friend B to be there and if Friend B is planning to apologize to Friend A, it's just not the right time... Friend A was hurt so much that she would not want to accept an apology just like that... Friend B caused so much damage... So, what happened next, when Friend B was about to leave, Friend A snapped and in a higher pitch said: "I do not need you here! For a long time I did not utter any word when I am hearing negative things that you have said at my back... You should even be thankful that I NEVER have degraded nor said foul words towards you." And, to some extent, Friend A even pointed a finger at Friend B's face and then, Friend B's brother accompied her out of the house...
Next thing happened, when Friend A came home, Friend B managed to blog about her encounter with Friend A last November which contained some lies to the story... I would really like to give the link here but her entry is in Filipino.... To make the long story short, she even got mad about what Friend A have done to her... To think that she started everything and now that she got a taste of her own medicine, that's how she reacted... And so, the brother of Friend B even told Friend A that her sister is traumatized about what happened... Well, if you can only understand Filipino and will be able to read what Friend B has on her blog, you will NEVER get the hint that she's in a trauma...
Of course, Friend B's brother defended her... told that Friend A was wrong in making a scene and that, Friend A DESERVES to be humiliated and degraded by their mom and aunt... Friend A defended herself by telling Friend B's brother "Who are they to judge me like that?". In my opinion, everyone does not have ANY RIGHT to treat someone shitty just because she/he desrves it... Even God does not know how to punish people... As to Friend A's point of view, she just could not take it anymore that's why she bursted all of a sudden and unexpectedly made a scene... In a way, she's defending her side... Specially right now that she had lost her father, she's in a LOT of pain...
posted by bottled genie at 4:49 PM
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